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Things to Do to Get Your Ex Back

So you’re looking for things to do to get your ex back? Well I got news for you, the things you’re doing right now are probably not the right ones. Here are the most common things people do to get their ex back:

    things to do to get your ex back

  • Calling Your Ex: “Hey Jessica… it’s me again. This is the 3rd voicemail today…”
  • Texting Them: “Hey Robert, what are you doing?”
  • Facebook Messaging Them: “Hey, how was your day?”
  • Begging Them: “Please, I’ll do anything!! I’ll give you a foot rub. Remember how much you wanted one!”
  • Showing Up at Their Job: “How is this creepy Jessica, I always get coffee at this place.”
  • Showing Up at Their House: “How is this creepy Robert, I was just in the neighborhood and my car ran out of gas in front of your house…”
  • Buying Them Gifts: “These flowers should save our relationship, right Jessica?”

I got a news flash for you, the items I just listed, as in what you may have thought was going to be on this “things to do to get your ex back” list… are all mistakes!!

So if you’re like most people who have recently been broken up with, your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend is not responding to anything you do. Then you start going over everything in your head…

  • Maybe it was that last text I sent her. I replied like 5 minutes after she sent it. I should have replied right away…
  • Maybe he isn’t replying to any of my texts because his phone broke. Yea that’s it, his phone broke…
  • Maybe she forgot her Facebook password and hasn’t been able to read any of my messages…
  • And the many more excuses you use to hide the fact why your ex isn’t talking to you…

Second news flash, your ex’s Facebook account, phone, and doorbell are not broken… they just aren’t answering you. The reason why is because you have most likely pushed him or her away from you with the common mistakes of calling, texting, begging, etc. But… your relationship can be saved! Here is the list you were looking for below:

Things to Do to Get Your Ex Back

You need to stop everything you’re doing with your ex and learn how to properly get him or her back. So first things first, stop showing up at their work, stop showing up at their house, stop texting them, stop calling them, stop communicating with them!

Let me introduce myself, I’m relationship expert Zac Miller and I have the solution to your problems! Clicking here will take you to the home page, where I am going to show you the first step you need to take to get your ex back. I’m also going to share with you my background, my experience, and the correct things to do to get your ex back.

Author Bio: Zac Miller

Author of The Art of The Text: The Ultimate Guide on Texting GirlsZac Miller is the author of The Ex Recovery Blueprint: The Ultimate Guide on How to Get Your Ex Back. You can find out more about what inspired his book on the "About the Author" page here. Zac is a specialist when it comes to relationships, and influencing others. His interests include psychology, water skiing, and poker. He runs seminars for couples in his home state of North Carolina. If you would like to contact Zac, please go to the contact me page, where you can email him.

What to Text My Ex Girlfriend

What to Text My Ex Girlfriend

So you’ve got your phone out and want to know what to text my ex girlfriend; well that all depends on what your intentions are. Are you looking to make her jealous? Do you want to just have a little fling with her for a night? Or are you trying to get back into a relationship with this girl and don’t know what to say because she isn’t replying to the texts you’ve been sending her? Well scroll down the page and find the option you are looking for concerning what to text my ex girlfriend.

Get Ex Girlfriend Jealous

If your goal is to get your ex girlfriend jealous, there are a few things you can do. One of my favorite things to do to a girl I’m trying to make jealous is to send her a text I would only send a girl I’m really interested in and then pull out the rug from under her! Here is what I mean. Send her a text like:

“I’ll pick you up tonight at 7pm ;)”

Then when she replies, immediately send her this:

“Oh sorry, wrong number”

And don’t text her anymore! This will send all types of emotions through her body. Who is he talking to? Was he joking? Does he have another girl? Even if she texts you back, don’t say anything, just don’t respond anymore. If you do plan on texting her again, make sure to wait at least two days before you do.

Get In Ex Girlfriend’s Pants

So you want a little fling with your ex girlfriend who you haven’t talked to in awhile but don’t know where to start? The best way to do this is to get her over to your place. You have two options for this:

  1. The Rekindle Card
  2. The Sympathy Card

Both work, but depending on your current relationship with your ex will determine which one to use. Card number 1 would be if you are still on a friendly basis with her and she is responding to your text messages. Something like:

‘Hey, I’m cooking dinner but forgot some of the steps to the pasta dish you taught me, can you come help me?’

Card number 2 is a little different. This is more if your ex hasn’t been responding to your messages, you cheated on her, or you don’t know where you stand with her. It would go something like this:

‘Hey, I’m kind of sad and could use a friend right now, can you come over and talk to me?’

You may have to tweak the example texts a little obviously, but know which one to use and you should be making out with your ex in no time!

Get Ex Girlfriend Back

If you are trying to get back with your ex girlfriend, what you text her depends on a ton of factors. How long has it been? Who broke up with who? Is she talking to another guy? However, there is one text that you can send no matter what is going on, that can level the playing field so to speak, and get her interested in you again. Whip out your phone, find your ex’s number and send her this:

‘Hey Jessica, you know what you are completely right. We should be broken up. I’m starting to see other people and this is best thing for both of us.’

You’re thinking what the heck? Agree with the break up, why would I do that? Well there’s a lot of psychology behind this, but what is something that all girls, and guys for that matter, want? They want what they can’t have! So when you say you’re fine with everything, you want to be broken up, and you tell her you’ve moved on, something is going to go off in her head. She will start thinking, ‘Wait a minute, I can’t have him anymore… I want him back!’ And that is what we’re going for here.

Okay, this is just the first text! You have a few more steps to go in order to get your girlfriend back. If you want to know a lot more tips, what else to text your ex girlfriend, and free advice on how to get your ex girlfriend back, click on the next page to find out more!

Author Bio: Zac Miller

Author of The Art of The Text: The Ultimate Guide on Texting GirlsZac Miller is the author of The Ex Recovery Blueprint: The Ultimate Guide on How to Get Your Ex Back. You can find out more about what inspired his book on the "About the Author" page here. Zac is a specialist when it comes to relationships, and influencing others. His interests include psychology, water skiing, and poker. He runs seminars for couples in his home state of North Carolina. If you would like to contact Zac, please go to the contact me page, where you can email him.

How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend

Hello, welcome to the website. I’m the Ex Girlfriend Master, Zac Miller. If you found this page, you are looking for the best advice on how to win back your ex girlfriend. I’ve been in your shoes and have made the all too common mistakes most guys make and lost girlfriends forever… you don’t have too!

How to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend

So I want to help you. I’m going to teach you the first thing to do in order to win your ex girlfriend back. Lets go over a little background first though. Now when a girl breaks up with us, a girl we really liked, most guys just go insane. We start non-stop texting her, calling her, buying her gifts, flowers, pretty much doing anything we can to try and get this girl back. Movies and society portray these things as great ideas, but they are actually mistakes that can push your girlfriend away… and away into the arms of another guy if you’re unlucky. So what do you do?

The first step regarding how to win back your girlfriend is to actually let her break up with you. That’s right, let the break up happen! You’re thinking Zac, why would I do that? Well lets go over a little Psychology 101.

What’s something girls… and guys for that matter… want… they want what they can’t have! So when you tell her its over, that’s fine, no problem, and act nonchalant like it didn’t even effect you, this is going to implant a little seed in her mind that will say, wait a minute… he didn’t care… I can’t have him anymore… I want him back! And that’s what we’re going for.

Now some of you guys are probably saying, Zac I am way pass that point. I’ve already done all the text messages, the phone calls, the gifts, and my girlfriend isn’t talking to me, what should I do? Well trust me okay, I’ve been there and I know what you’re going through… I also know what you can do to get her to start talking to you again!

Author Bio: Zac Miller

Author of The Art of The Text: The Ultimate Guide on Texting GirlsZac Miller is the author of The Ex Recovery Blueprint: The Ultimate Guide on How to Get Your Ex Back. You can find out more about what inspired his book on the "About the Author" page here. Zac is a specialist when it comes to relationships, and influencing others. His interests include psychology, water skiing, and poker. He runs seminars for couples in his home state of North Carolina. If you would like to contact Zac, please go to the contact me page, where you can email him.

I Want My Girlfriend Back

I Want My Girlfriend Back

So you’re currently thinking, you know what, I want my girlfriend back! Well you’ve come to the right place! Hi I’m Zac Miller and I’m going to be your relationship coach for the next 5 minutes. There are a number of things you should be doing right now that will increase your chances of getting your ex girlfriend back. There are also a number of things you should NOT be doing (which are common mistakes 99% of guys make when they try getting back a girlfriend).

Let’s start with the basics you need to think about. How long ago did you date this girl? Did you guys break up a week ago, or has it been awhile? No matter where you are, the first thing you should do is check out this article, the first step to getting back your ex girlfriend.

After you have read that article, lets go over a few things; when did the relationship you had with this girl end? If you’re talking about an old ex girlfriend from lets say a year ago, you can most likely whip out your phone, shoot her a text, and get a response no problem. Even if you guys broke up on bad terms, time heals wounds; bad things become forgotten and good things are remembered. Not only that, you used to date this girl which indicates she liked you. This means you have a better chance than most guys out there of going out with her again. Send her something along the lines of “Hey, remember me?” and see what kind of response you get. If you get a nice message back (or any message for that matter) this indicates she has interest in talking to you again. If you don’t get a message back, go here.

On the other hand, if the break up was a little sooner and you want back a not so old girlfriend, a great article to check out would be this one. There you will find the top 5 mistakes guys make when trying to get get an old girlfriend back, as well as proven techniques you can use to get her back. Some of the mistakes you find you may have already made yourself! It’s okay though, you can get things back to normal if you stick to a good plan.

Author Bio: Zac Miller

Author of The Art of The Text: The Ultimate Guide on Texting GirlsZac Miller is the author of The Ex Recovery Blueprint: The Ultimate Guide on How to Get Your Ex Back. You can find out more about what inspired his book on the "About the Author" page here. Zac is a specialist when it comes to relationships, and influencing others. His interests include psychology, water skiing, and poker. He runs seminars for couples in his home state of North Carolina. If you would like to contact Zac, please go to the contact me page, where you can email him.

Getting Over a Break Up – For Men

Get Over the Sadness

Getting broken up may be one of the single most emotional things you can deal with in your life. The person whom you've shared your love, secrets, and much more with no longer wants to be with you. Here are some tips for getting over a break up for men.

It is perfectly reasonable to be sad, it is perfectly reasonable to be depressed. These are just emotions that come with the break up. You cannot let this go on for long though, it will start to interfere with your life. So a great trick to get back on your feet and start getting over the break up is called the "Fast Forward" technique.

Right after a break up your feelings are raw and open. All you can think about is the break up and life becomes grim. The "Fast Forward" technique is a great way to get your mind off of the break up, and start enjoying life again. Here are the 5 steps to the fast forward technique:

STEP 1:

Feel whatever it is you are feeling and notice how and where you feel it. For example many people feel emotional hurt in their chest or heart (that is why it is called heart break). But, that may or may not be true for you. Now just focus on your feeling and ask yourself silently or aloud the following:

Can I allow this feeling?

Or…

Can I welcome this feeling?

And then answer. It doesn’t matter if it is a Yes or No.

STEP 2:

Ask “Could I let this feeling go?” Again, a Yes or No is acceptable.

STEP 3

Ask “Would I let this feeling go?”

STEP 4:

Ask “When?”

STEP 5:

Now examine the feeling again. Does it feel different? Did you feel a shift? The shift is different for everyone, but is a sign of small healing. You want to feel how your feeling has changed and repeat steps 1 thru 5. The Fast Forward Technique should not be a struggle. In fact, it will usually feel quite warm and soothing. You will want to do 2 or 3 sessions a day. One session may be 5 or 6 repetitions or more through the 5 steps.

Author Bio: Zac Miller

Author of The Art of The Text: The Ultimate Guide on Texting GirlsZac Miller is the author of The Ex Recovery Blueprint: The Ultimate Guide on How to Get Your Ex Back. You can find out more about what inspired his book on the "About the Author" page here. Zac is a specialist when it comes to relationships, and influencing others. His interests include psychology, water skiing, and poker. He runs seminars for couples in his home state of North Carolina. If you would like to contact Zac, please go to the contact me page, where you can email him.

Should I Call My Ex Girlfriend?

So you just saw a picture of your ex girlfriend on the internet and you’re thinking, should I call my ex girlfriend? What if she calls me, should I answer? Should I call my ex back?

All these questions are running through your head when you’re thinking about calling your ex girlfriend. This can be a difficult situation as the wrong move could make things worse than it already is, or even push your ex away for good!

Should I Call My Ex Girlfriend

So what do you do?

Well it depends. Has it been a year, a month, or did you just break up yesterday?

The longer it has been, the more appropriate it is to call her phone. You see if it's been a long time, lets say a year, she has had a lot of time to “forget” about the relationship. She forgets the time you got drunk and took your pants off in the library, but remembers the time you gave her a rose on her birthday. Like anything else, time heals all wounds.

So if it has been a year, go ahead and call her, but make sure you check out the home page before you do; you can find some great ideas of what to say.

Now let’s say you just broke up 3 days ago. You may think you can fix things with this phone call, but that is NOT the right move here. It doesn't really matter what you’re going to say, if you want her back, you need to steer clear of the phone for awhile. There is a lot of raw emotions at this stage, and she hasn't really had time to think about things very much. So even if you called expressing your un-dieing love for her, she’s still so angry that it won’t matter. Emotions need time, which is why you should leave that phone on the hook.

Want to learn more tips on calling your ex, texting your ex, and what you need to do to make sure you get him or her back! Check out the new book “The Ex Recovery Blueprint” by clicking on the next page button below to find out more!

Author Bio: Zac Miller

Author of The Art of The Text: The Ultimate Guide on Texting GirlsZac Miller is the author of The Ex Recovery Blueprint: The Ultimate Guide on How to Get Your Ex Back. You can find out more about what inspired his book on the "About the Author" page here. Zac is a specialist when it comes to relationships, and influencing others. His interests include psychology, water skiing, and poker. He runs seminars for couples in his home state of North Carolina. If you would like to contact Zac, please go to the contact me page, where you can email him.